Older women dating young ladies
I know rumours abound about how dating a younger man is overrated and overly glamourised, and that younger men are childish and all. The experience put me in touch with the bedrock truth.
You’re a successful older man who wants to date a woman significantly younger than him. Needless to say, this goes for ALL people who are dating online. We want what WE want, even if what we want is unrealistic.Plus a younger man is (wink wink) innocent and naïve in the nice kind of way. How does a 56 year old man find a good younger woman that would be interested in marriage and willing to have children by him? Most good sites line me up with the 50 year olds and most 36 year olds tend to think I’m a dirty old man.Websites generally attempt to pair singles with matches who are demographically similar. We’re all so dazzled by looks and youth that we pass up amazing people who are a much better fit. The woman who graduated high school in the same year as you? “I can’t help what I’m attracted to,” say all of my clients – both male and female. I do know, however, that as long as they close their minds to dating people who are age-appropriate, they’re really going to struggle with online dating.Most 36-year-old women think you’re a dirty old man. This does not mean that you’re not a great guy with a ton to give and the purest intentions. I know you were looking for advice, Dale, so I don’t want to leave you without it. One, sign up with one of those successful men/younger women sites.Studies show older men prefer youth and beauty first for mate selection and women choose men who offer resources and stability.
It's no surprise there are a number of websites emerging and profiting from these "mutually benefiting" relationships.
It is not really a big deal in the western world, but it is a big deal in some places in Africa.
It still remains a strange and unacceptable idea in Africa and everyone seem to envisage nothing more than problems in such union.
Does age really change anything or affects anything?
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My question is: what is actually wrong with such a union? Is there any guarantee for success in such a union or everyone should expect problems in the long-run?