Men dating more than one woman
Instead of me being pulled into drama and useless conversation about committing, I would use my masculinity to lead her and I out of that conversation and into a more enjoyable emotional state of being.
It’s similar to “make up sex” after a break up, but more erotic because she also feels like she is being used for sex…and loves it at the same time. You might be checking out your options, or not ready for a relationship right now. And it's not even that hard, if you really know what to do.If you treat something like a big deal, she's likely to think it's a big deal.If you’re constantly taking a girl out to expensive restaurants and trying to organize additional dates, then it means that you’re most-likely trying to be her boyfriend. Or maybe even in the longer-term, you're comfortable having more than one woman in your life. To date multiple women, you have to understand female psychology.Multiple dating makes dating messier even though the people that do it often think it makes it easier because it keeps them out of a relationship, let’s them check out lots of options at once instead of doing one person at a time, but it can also be a protective measure for ensuring that you don’t get close enough to anyone.
Really multiple dating is just a code term for: 1) Keeping your options open.
She would look at me with excitement, hoping that somewhere deep in my mind, I was beginning to change and would only want to be with her.
She would hope that if she gave me enough sexual pleasure, I would realize that she was the girl for me.
Couldn’t you ‘experiment’ with one person for a few dates, see how it goes, and then move on? Do the people who you are dating know that you’re potentially wasting their time? As people no matter what they tell you, don’t always date for the same reasons, dating someone and getting to know them will let you determine through their actions and interactions (not just words and your imagination) whether you are two people on the same page with similar primary values.
Who said you have to go straight to a relationship? A couple of weeks ago I wrote about why dating is a discovery phase for fact finding.
For example, you'll have a lot more success when approaching women if you do so like talking to a stranger is the most natural thing in the world than if you approach her sputtering "Excuse me.