He is married and gets jealous if i am dating
This translates into having an expectation that the girl will be “perfect” in a way that they imagine that perfect to be to be, so they try to adjust who she is, how she acts, and how she lives her life to their own standard of perfection.
If a guy really likes the girl he is with, he wants everything in that relationship to be perfect, which in his mind means – everything has to be his way because he knows best.I did ask him before if he had he still got feelings for her? He has told me, not too long ago, that “believe me, being with you is the happiest I’ve ever been.I’m on cloud 9.” He said that he wished he met me 20 years ago.Some guys are so jealous and controlling that they don’t even let their girlfriends go out on their own with their friends, because they are afraid that some other guy will seduce her and take her away.Other guys tell their girlfriends what to wear, how to keep their hair, who to hang out with, what to eat, and otherwise trying to control their life.He did say, the other day, that he was sorry he got married. I asked him the other night if he would go back to her if he was guaranteed she wouldn’t do anything like she did in the past. I said so its not that you don’t love her and he just said well he doesn’t trust her and it’s the same thing.
He said, “trust me you’ve no idea what life was like with her, no way would I go back. I don’t want to get hurt again, it took me nearly 8 years to get over my last partner whom I was deeply in-love with and we have a child together but he has nothing to do with her.
So I noticed my old friend commented on what my mom said, and I said "Tyler H? " I said "He's an old friend" He's looking through his pics and then he says "Did you him! I could go on and on about stories of his jealousy with me and guys. But yet he seems to only be sexually attracted to me, he is kinda the player type. So that is why I don't get why it matters who I go out with and such if he just wants a buddy? So, he has no feelings for her at all, and never did. She then says sex seems to be all they have in common.
But at 1 point, he didn't want her with other men either. So, he keeps this girl around for sex, and said he loves her looks. When feelings came in, and she told him she felt used, and complained alot, he threatened to stop the arrangement.
Relationships can be one of the most pleasurable things on the planet… ” All this worrying about our relationships can make us feel pretty alone.
but they can also be a breeding ground for anxious thoughts and feelings. It can lead us to create distance between ourselves and our partner.
I mean he shows the signs that he just wants me as a buddy, but I could be wrong. Or, if you started dating another guy, then you'd have to cut him out all together, assuming you aren't the cheating type. Example Using a girl I know, who's a sex buddy, as an example.