Dating multiple people at once
They go out with whoever happens to cross their path and then don't look any further.
” you ask yourself as you scroll thru your texts one lazy Sunday.So what are the things you would want to consider when/if you decide that you want to be dating more than one person at once? But I’ll be the first person to say that it can get messy.I’ve talked to a lot of people with many different views on the topic and only one thing seems clear; There really is no line, and there isn’t one set standard. I think that dating more than one person at a time can in some ways be helpful to figure out who you want to be with.There comes a time in everybody’s dating career when your dance card suddenly becomes fuller than you know what to do with.One day, you’re swiping sullenly through Tinder bemoaning the lack of attractive, normal-seeming men that are possibly as tall as they say they are in their profiles, and the next, you find yourself drafting a spreadsheet to keep track of the nine dates that you have somehow booked for one week. Like all things in life, your dating life will ebb and flow.Again, the commute isn’t great so it’s hard to see her frequently, although I did enjoy hanging out with her.
She told me on our second date that she is still a virgin which I’m fine with. I was trying to be very respectful of where she’s at in life. I told her honestly I wasn’t sure, but it was something we could sort out after I came back from a family vacation I was about to go on. She told me that she felt like I had made her a back-up option, and because of my small social circle it had gotten back to her that she was not the only person I was seeing.
I even think that dating many people might be one of the best ways to find the one person you are really looking to find.
Here are five great reasons to date multiple people -- at once: 1. So many people date "comfortably"; they keep seeing people who are nice, but they never date anyone who really excites them.
The rule of thumb I’ve started to use is that if I like them a decent amount, and I feel like things are going well with them I will mention that I’m seeing more than one person by the third date.
I tend to feel guilty dating more than one person if I sort of care about one of them, so if I feel guilty I’ll speak up and just keep everything out in the open.
I’m in my early twenties, done with college, finally in the real world, and am trying to see what is out there for dating.